As Promised Via Twitter.....Here is MY JAM!

Even when the sky comes falling, Even when the sun don't shine......I got faith in you and I! So put your pretty little hand in mine! Even when we're down to the wire babe, Even when it's do or die,......We can do it baby simple and plain! This love is a sure thing!


.....those are words any woman (or man) wants to hear.

Baby Your a Firework!

For all my fellow UC students going into our last week of classes, no matter what your going through remember you are a firework, so let your colors burst!

Keri....Keri.....Keri, WTF!

So I pretty much fell in love with Keri off this video.....

I really don't think you understand, like I played it back at least 3 times, like WHO IS THIS GIRL?! She just shut it D-O-W-N! Like #POW she changed the whole game! Like this was my jam! Like made me wanna hit the gym to be a boxer just to have that body like hers and get a trainer like that!

I had such high hopes for her, and then she slowly just.......fell off. Until just now when I saw this======>

Like Keri! *cue slow motion voice* NoOoOoOoO! I had such high hopes for her to be an actual role model, she has the story (college educated, hard work ethic, payed her dues to the game, etc.) and now your vag is just spread eagle all up in the camera! WTF Keri!

IDK, maybe I wanted, or expected, too much out of her but sheesh Keri.....really?! And not to mention you got my man in your video! Oh no, you crossed the line!

seriously....

1. 'swag' is dead, and 2. 'swagging' should not consist of a female thrusting her vag at any one, 3. you should not have to sexually coerce a man to 'accomplish a mission,' 4. what the eff was your mission any way?!, 5. "love me, love me - it's the way you love me . Touch me, touch me - it's the way you touch me. Fuck me, fuck me - it's the way you fuck me" is that really the best you could do Keri?! ....I expect better, much better, seeing as you did start your career as a writer/producer!

No, she's not the only female role model turned trash, but I really thought she was different, I really thought she may be one of a dying bread to be #thatgirl that could represent and give the lil ones a nice image to look up to, an actual real woman in the entertainment biz to want to be like, especially since she can't even hold a real note.

#SMH at you Keri Hilson.

Stop Makin' Excuses

I know that each person has had those days when things just don’t go the way they planned…car broke down, shuttle is running late, overslept, or can’t find the time to get everything that needs to be done, DONE. I recently had one of those days; of course on a rainy day…man does the weather effect me. Anyway I was upset and thought who else to call but my mother to perk me up…well she did in a way I didn’t like at first. She said”Stop Makin' Excuses”…#welldamn not something I was expecting. I didn’t want to hear “Stop Makin' Excuses” but it was something that I NEEDED to hear. As college students, better yet adults, we should expect for things to not always go as planned…THATS LIFE, ITS TOUGH.

We have to realize that things are not going to be always handed to us. We sometimes have to work hard to get it. When you have those bad days just remember that they are not going to last forever. And to get over that hump saying “Stop Makin' Excuses” is actually a good push to get it done!

Quote to remember ”Ask and you shall receive”

One of My Favorites Just came on Pandora

Miguel feat. J Cole (my favorite rap artist at the present time) "All I Want Is You Now"

Are There Any Good Men (& Women) Left?

So today on twitter (follow us....@BrittnayLiebe & @Minni_Faye) I tweeted about men being sh*tty, just liars & cheaters and low down, good for nothing dogs......and what do you know this caused a riot all up and through twitter. Backlash from men (and some women) and praises and validation from most women. So this leaves me with the question, are there still good men and women left? If so, where are they?

I'm not a fan of blanket statements..."all men/women aint is" and I am a huge advocate for the good men out there, yes I do believe that somewhere hiding under some rock buried in some cave there has to be ONE good man out there.....but seeing everything that my friends and I have been through since stepping foot on the campus of the University of Cincinnati somewhere my views were altered. No I'm not perfect, but I do believe that I adhere to the expectations that I hold my significant other too, until my expectations are broken. Then is somewhat of a free for all and I find me & my S.O. going tit for tat until the entire relationship is in shambles and beyond the point of reconciliation.

I'm not saying that good men don't exist, but is it that my expectations are too high? Am I asking for too much? Do I have to settle for a man that will eventually hurt me.....and then forgive him, only to be hurt again, and again, and again? Or do I leave this man, who has marriage potential, only to heap the baggage of that relationship onto the next man?

You see, all of these issues are things that every college girl will face, and I wonder what is the male point of view....because as of lately I've been hearing a lot of cries of 'b*tches aint sh*t."